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  Certified Genuine User, another trusted member has indicated that they personally know and recommend this user. HotMessNC
Member since: 09/25/12
Certified Genuine
Couple Him: Straight
Her: Bi

Mail History Drinks
He:  42   5'11   245
She: 42   5'5   138
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Interest Levels
Tame 3 on a scale of 0-4     Couples 1 on a scale of 0-4
Moderate 4 on a scale of 0-4     Males
Wild 4 on a scale of 0-4     Females 4 on a scale of 0-4
Desired Age Range
25 to 58
Other Info
  • Drinkers OK
  • No Smokers
    What makes us a Hotmess ?

    Short Tag Line:
    What makes us a Hotmess ?

    I/We are looking for
    We are looking for what we REALLY want.... The Single Lady; either single female (or 2) or a female who is part of a couple but can play separately. We are very discrete and respectful, as our new friends should be. Possibly exclusive and long term situation with the right person.Friendship would be a plus.

    I am extremely bi and love my girl time; like to please and be pleased. He is a sexual dynamo and will rock your world in the bedroom. We can promise you, you will leave with a smile on your face, and hope that you will want to come back for more. We are not looking for a one night stand, but someone we can meet with on a regular basis, for fun inside the bedroom and out.

    Think you can help us kick up the heat?? Message Us!!

    Our new friends should be HWP and take care of themselves ; and we also like the ladies with curves in all the right places; we both work out daily and take care of ourselves, and would like to meet people who are similar. Prefer women that are shaved, but a landing strip is fine.


    Discretion is a must. Disease and Drama Free. NON-SMOKERS ONLY and again, NO SINGLE MALES.

    Describe Yourself:
    Hot messes' are appealing for a variety of reasons, most notably because we're generally unexpected, capricious, & agonizingly provocative. We are attractive, physically fit; both work out daily. Outgoing and fun; look younger than our age. We are a fun couple who enjoys travel, hanging out on the beach, spending time on our boat at the lake, good food and wine, cooking, and just hanging out with friends doing whatever.

    Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
    When we meet face to face, ask, we'll be happy to tell you. We've had so many of our fantasies fulfilled, but we still have some we are hoping to experience.

    What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
    We know we will not be a match for everyone; however, if you would, if we message you, even if you are not interested, please be courteous and let us know you received our message and respectfully decline. : )